Collaborating (assertive, cooperative)   The collaborative approach to conflict resolution seeks creative solutions by identifying primary issues in an effort to understand the other person’s perspective. This conflict management style encourages mutual respect and trust to help build a healthy relationship through a “win-win” approach. Compromising (intermediate in both assertiveness and cooperativeness) The compromising style demonstrates a willingness to surrender...

Mick Jagger said it best when he first crooned, “You can’t always get what you want.” The act of compromise involves a give and take. You don’t always win, but you don’t always lose either. For some couples, compromise denotes a four–letter word; for others, compromise strengthens their romantic relationship. Compromise means letting go of control and recognizing our partner’s...